Content Use/Comment Policy

These are the rules of engagement. They will be strictly enforced.
On Comments:
  1. This is my kingdom and I am the Queen. Whatever I say goes. 
  2. Comments are heavily moderated and approved at my discretion. I determine what is and isn't appropriate at any given time.
  3. Because I like discussion and dialogue, 90% of comments will likely make it through, so don't be shy about adding your voice.
  4. Dissenting opinions are allowed and welcome as long as they are respectful, productive and elevate the conversation.
  5. If your comment is racist, sexist, homophobic, misogynistic, derailing, trolling, or any other kind of bigoted that I deem offensive and impermissible, it will be deleted without explanation. Deal with it. This rule includes charges of "reverse racism."

On Content Use:
  1. Cardinal rule: DO NOT STEAL MY WORK. I work very hard on the essays I publish and I deserve to be credited and compensated for my labour. Do not republish anything from this site without express written permission from me. Permission may be sought by emailing me at
  2. Unfortunately, I am not entertaining requests to republish my work at this time. To be clear, this means that I do not wish to be cited in academic works of any kind, or republished anywhere online. Exceptions may be made on a case by case basis. Hyperlink citations are allowed and encouraged, however you must explicitly credit me by name and link back to the original piece. I would also love it if you also shot me a quick email to say you were citing me. This is not mandatory, but I do like to know where my ideas end up, and what context they are being referenced in. If you purposely fail to properly cite my work, or cite it for the explicit purpose of mocking/derision, I will not hesitate to name and shame you online. Foul-play is a two way street that I don't often have opportunity to travel.
  3. If you're unsure if what you would like to do with my content constitutes fair or appropriate use, shoot me a quick email and I'll let you know, but a cursory definition of plagiarism should help you figure it out on your own.
  4. Sharing posts via social media is obviously not a problem, and in fact, heavily encouraged.
  5. To that end, if you think that I have used something without proper/adequate citation, let me know and I will fix it. A quick comment on the offending post should suffice, but emails are welcome.
On General Expectations of Civility:
  1. At all times, remember that I write this blog for myself, in my spare time. I am not an educator on feminism or anti-racism. I am also not a voice for all black women everywhere. My opinions are mine and I speak only for myself. The purpose of this blog is not to provide an education, but simply to act as a venue for my opinions. That you might glean something from being here is delightful, but ultimately incidental.
  2. Because I often write about feminist issues as they relate to pop culture, I expect commenters to have a basic level understanding of feminist concepts and definitions. If you do not have this knowledge, know that much of the discussion will not be accessible to you. Think of my writing as a 400-level college course with pre-requisites.
  3. Racism101: Intro To Racism courses can be found at Racism School. Please note the working definition of racism that is used on this blog.
  4. I am not a teacher. I do not get paid to do this. I do not owe anyone my time or attention. Do not demand an explanation, tailored education, or approach my work in a way that indicates you feel entitled to access to me, or you will be ignored and likely banned. Good faith enquiries will entertained as depending on my mood when I find them. Always remember that Professor Google has 24/7 office hours.
  5. If you find yourself unable to comply with these very reasonable rules, then this is not the place for you. Thank you for stopping by.

Accusations of censorship or "suppression of free speech" will be mocked. Remember at all times that this blog is MINE, and I will do with it as I see fit. No one but me is entitled to a voice in this space. If you dislike the way I moderate discussions or disapprove of the way I deal with dissenters, you are welcome to start your own blog. Blogger, Wordpress and Tumblr are free and available to the public.